feat: add ARM64 (aarch64) architecture support for builds and packages

Add cross-architecture build support so the project can be developed on
ARM64 (Fedora aarch64 laptop) while still producing amd64 packages for
production. All build, package, publish, and install scripts are now
architecture-aware via shared arch-helper.sh detection.

- Add scripts/arch-helper.sh for shared architecture detection
- CI builds both amd64 and arm64 in matrix strategy
- nfpm.yaml uses NFPM_ARCH env var instead of hardcoded amd64
- Build scripts support MCPCTL_TARGET_ARCH for cross-compilation
- installlocal.sh auto-detects RPM/DEB and filters by architecture
- release.sh gains --both-arches flag for dual-arch releases
- Package cleanup is arch-scoped (won't clobber other arch's packages)
- build-mcpd.sh supports --platform and --multi-arch flags
- Add pnpm scripts: rpm:build:amd64, deb:build:arm64, release:both
- Conditional rpm/dpkg-deb checks for cross-distro compatibility

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

scripts/publish-deb.sh

@@ -20,7 +20,16 @@ if [ -z "$GITEA_TOKEN" ]; then
   exit 1
 fi
 
-DEB_FILE=$(ls dist/mcpctl*.deb 2>/dev/null | head -1)
+# Architecture detection (respects MCPCTL_TARGET_ARCH)
+source "$SCRIPT_DIR/arch-helper.sh"
+resolve_arch "${MCPCTL_TARGET_ARCH:-}"
+
+# Find DEB matching target architecture
+DEB_FILE=$(ls dist/mcpctl*.deb 2>/dev/null | grep -E "[._]${NFPM_ARCH}[._]" | head -1)
+if [ -z "$DEB_FILE" ]; then
+  # Fallback: try any deb file
+  DEB_FILE=$(ls dist/mcpctl*.deb 2>/dev/null | head -1)
+fi
 if [ -z "$DEB_FILE" ]; then
   echo "Error: No DEB found in dist/. Run scripts/build-deb.sh first."
   exit 1