fix: show server name in instances table, allow logs by server name

- Instance list now shows server NAME instead of cryptic server ID
- Include server relation in findAll query (Prisma include)
- Logs command accepts server name, server ID, or instance ID
  (resolves server name → first RUNNING instance)

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/cli/tests/commands/get.test.ts

@@ -69,11 +69,13 @@ describe('get command', () => {
 
   it('lists instances with correct columns', async () => {
     const deps = makeDeps([
-      { id: 'inst-1', serverId: 'srv-1', status: 'RUNNING', containerId: 'abc123def456', port: 3000 },
+      { id: 'inst-1', serverId: 'srv-1', server: { name: 'my-grafana' }, status: 'RUNNING', containerId: 'abc123def456', port: 3000 },
     ]);
     const cmd = createGetCommand(deps);
     await cmd.parseAsync(['node', 'test', 'instances']);
+    expect(deps.output[0]).toContain('NAME');
     expect(deps.output[0]).toContain('STATUS');
+    expect(deps.output.join('\n')).toContain('my-grafana');
     expect(deps.output.join('\n')).toContain('RUNNING');
   });